Time is one of things like most people, I am short on. Between family and work, beginning graduate school, and having some sort of personal life, I have found that I have less time to explore the many topics on HLHS that I want to. I’ve decided to prepare an entry only once a month now for this blog and in tough times during exams, every other month, so that I can maintain the balance I need in all aspects of my life. It has been almost a year since my very first post, and I feel that I haven’t even touched the surface of HLHS in a child today so I’m not giving up – I’ll never do that, just refocusing a bit.
When I look back over the past year, I am sweetly reminded that we have reached another milestone – Carter has a birthday tomorrow, he will be 8 years old. The memories of those many weeks in the Cardiac Intensive Care Unit for each surgery have slowly receded in my mind; not forgotten, but now just a vague cloudy recollection of a time best left in the past. Today I focus on the smart, lovable boy who loves to play soccer, loves his hermit crabs, loves to read and loves to play video games.
Over the past year I have connected with many parents of children with HLHS. Everyone says the same thing – We wouldn’t have it any other way, I wouldn’t change a thing. I understand this, I really do, but parents in the future will have options we never had – fetal intervention and gene therapy. And someday, just maybe, HLHS will not be the most common cause of death from cardiac defects in infants.