Thursday, June 2, 2011

Can We Talk?


In the roller-coaster life of a child with a heart defect, sometimes parents need someone to turn to when they want to have a conversation with somebody else who understands what their daily life is like.  We’ve all been there – the sympathetic nodding of the head, the jumbled response, the pause in conversation – When all a parent wants to say is I’m frustrated because my child …… and I don’t know what this means.  It’s the unknown, the unpredictability, and the everyday challenge of living a normal life.   I’ve spent some time researching support groups and I’ve listed the ones I think have something to offer to everyone.  

Mended Little Hearts
Mended Little Hearts partners with hospitals to offer resources to families diagnosed with a congenital heart defect and provides support to families by trained volunteers through Hospital Visiting, Internet and Telephone Visiting, Group Meetings and Social Events.
http://www.mendedlittlehearts.org/

The Congenital Heart Information Network
CHIN has a very nice Community section where you can communicate with others in the Chat Room during regularly scheduled discussions, join an Online Support group, visit the Family Room to read other families’ stories and share yours, see the Portrait Gallery with photos and stories of members, and visit the Memorial Garden which was created to honor the "brave warriors" who are no longer with us.  Visit their Resources page for a list of Book Reviews and links to local, regional and national support groups.

Saving Little Hearts
Saving Little Hearts is an organization that is dedicated to helping children with congenital heart defects and their families by providing emotional assistance and educational information primarily through the distribution of Care Packages to children undergoing heart surgery.

Little Hearts, the Children’s Heart Society, and Heart Defects Families Association
These non-profit, volunteer based organizations provide support groups to parents and parent-matching programs.


Whether you decide to join a group and become an active member or just drop in from time to time to visit the resource pages, I hope you find comfort in the knowledge that you are not alone in your struggle.  There is a community of families, volunteers, and dedicated medical professionals who are there to support, educate, inform, and connect with you in a very positive way.

6 comments:

  1. You know, forums where you can chat with people dealing with the same issue as you are a Godsend. Can you imagine how alone and uninformed you could feel before the Internet?

    –Cassandra

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  2. What a great idea! My little HLHSer is almost 20 months and about a year or two away from his Fontan. I too have found a LOT of "stuff" out there for expecting parents and new heart families, and have also seen a few adults with CHDs here and there, but I have yet to find any resources specific to the "in between" years (post 3-stage surgeries, prior to adulthood). Thanks for doing this!

    Kathy
    http://www.mom2lo.com

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  3. Cassandra,

    You are absolutely right. Through the internet, I have found wonderful parents to talk to that share the same concerns as I do.

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  4. Kathy,

    Nice to meet you! Although every child is unique in their heart health, my son was an early Fontan at 2 years old. I must say, life is a little easier when those surgeries are over! Wishing you a happy and heart-filled summer!

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  5. My unborn granddaughter was just diagnosed with HLHS.. I'm just heartbroken and scared

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  6. Dear Lisa,

    Sending many prayers and positive thoughts to you and your family. I encourage you to find a support group through your granddaughter's cardiologist or hospital. There are many families out there and we all cope better with someone to lean on. Surgical repair has come a long way over the decades - there is hope!! Babies born with HLHS are surviving, and even thriving. Everyone's journey is different. Find the blessing in yours. I wish you and your family all the very best.

    Heart Hugs,
    Julie

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